When you meet your Soulmate or Twin flame, It’s not always the most beautiful experience. There can be negativity and drama at the very beginning.
When you meet your Twin flame there is nothing like this experience that you’ve ever felt before. The spiritual bond is very powerful, it feels magical and for a while no one else will matter in your life.
This can also have the same effect with your Soulmate. With the Twin flame there is a special magnetic pull that makes it almost impossible to resist.They can tap into the deepest part of your soul into a 5D level.
It can be a little scary when you only know this person for a short time or barely know them at all. That someone can actually tune into the inner essence of your spirit.
The powerful strength of soul energy with twin flamescan stir up all types emotions. Many times not positive ones.
When there is karmic past life energy that needs to be corrected, it can create a lot of emotional issues that needs to be cleared before they can unite in harmony.
Many times these issues can be severe. When one is not aware or awake to see what they need to do, in order to clear these blockages in their life to move forward.
They will try to run from the heart of the matter, by creating a confliction, referred to as the runner and chaser phase.
This is only temporarythere is nothing that can permanently disconnect the twin flame connection. I do explain more about the Runner and Chaser phase that you can read about in my previous article.
Runners and Chaser roles can be reversed, to the point that they both are running from themselves. This can go on for many years, creating anxiety and negativity. It will feel feel like an endless cycle.
With Twin Flames you will always feel the presence of their spirit near you. Twin flames are connected through a powerful soul source, that is one soul divided in two, before you were born.
Nothing can disconnect them, no matter where they are, if they are with other relationships, different cultures or other sides of the world. Twin flames will always find themselves back together.
Twin flames are extreme energy connections, that is a beautiful love story or a very painful experience. This is a very powerful energy connection that’s intense.
Cutting or severing the ties is not an option, when there is negativity and drama involved. There is no one to manually cut off from your Twin flame.
There are reasons why the both of you are going through this. You both are sent together to fulfill your destiny as one soul. Along with working on yourselves with life to find unity and balance in your selves.
This happens also with Soulmate as well as twin flame connections, When there is drama the energy is off-balance. And they need to continue to get it right, many times repeating in different lifetimes.
Always remember that you can do anything that you put your mind to. Getting past the energy of this drama and recognizing The truth with inside yourself. Never allowing it to overwhelm you and that you need to have self control with love in your heart.
There is love inside you but the ego is always trying to take control. Soulmates and twin flames need to come to a balance partnershipwith a deeper understanding to each others needs.
This can only happen when they have finally found their true soul mission in life, not allowing on the drama to take over, that comes that happens in every relationship.
Even when they are separated, soulmates need to work on themselves by loving and having gratitude for what they have in their their life. This is when they will be able to unite and live together in harmony.
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There are so many different types of soulmates that enter our lives, as many of you already know.
There are compatible soulmates, twin flame and karmic connection, and I know that this can all be so confusing but I will give you a little insight on what each of them mean.
The Soulmate bond is very strong and we can have this connection with more than one person.
There are also eternal soul mates that make an intense impact into our lives, that share a soul contract to help you fulfill your life destiny.
Many times we are connected to these amazing soul mates and live many years, many times life partnerships.
Twin flame Connectionsare a little different but still part of the Soulmate group.
The twin flame connection is actually one soul split into two, your other half.
We actually go through life times trying to reunite and get our life path balanced.
Many times, twinflames do not meet up in a lifetimeand is skipped to the next. There is about 50% chance that you will meet your twin flame. I always say that it’s never good to go look for a specific type of soulmate, twin flame, Past Life or karmic connection.
Your destiny is meant for you to be with the perfect partner and it’s not meant for you to choose what type of soul connection you both should have.
What are a soulmate and a twin flame connection?
They belong to the same soul group, but are very different. Soulmates share a soul connection that will help them learn lessons and help them find their path.
Twin flames can go through a lot of chaos and negativity before they actually find harmony and peace with one another.
Many times, it can take several years before they finally get through the purging and detoxing of negativity in their lives.
What is stronger – Soulmate or twin flame connection?
They are all equal as in how important they are in your life. You may feel differently with each and every type of soul connection we meet.
The Soulmate connection is a very deep energy that you share with someone. But both twin flames and soulmates actually have a deep intensity in their energy all together.
Twin flames share an intense soul connection that is filled with both a beautiful vitality and longevity within their spirit. Soulmates can reflect many parts of us such as our family, friends, coworkers and even our pets.
The twin flame connection is a blast of energy that changes your life when you meet your other half.
Your life will never be the same after meeting your twin flame, even if you are in a long term relationship with someone else.
Twin flames are actually the mirror of each otherand they are the opposite of one another, similar to Yin Yang.
How do I know if I share a certain type of Soul bond, such as a Soulmate, karmic or Twin flame connection?
With Soulmates, you can feel the energy right away and that something is about to happen in your life and you know that there is a connection there.
You may have a lot in common and you both may find out that everything you do is very compatible.
Now twin flames are actually the center of your soul and this isn’t as simple as it seems to be with, actually they experience certain types of drama and difficulties while connecting.
This doesn’t have to be on a physical level, usually it’s when they try to communicate, they seem not to see eye to eye. With this type of connection, there are different phases such as the Runner and the Chaser stages.
With twin flames you may feel a very compelling kind of feeling, when you first meet them.
It’ll be almost like a lightbulb switched on and everything now makes sense, as why you had to experience negativity and turmoil in your life, prior of meeting them.
There’s a masculine and the feminineside with twin flames, which doesn’t necessarily mean the same with genders.
They can be both the male and the female or the same gender. But when it comes to the Twin flame connection, there is always a masculine and feminine sides to both Twins.
Twin flame can complete each other’s energy and feel intense sexually and emotionally bonding.
No matter what their life path has taken them prior to meeting their twin, they will find one another no matter what. But usually it happens after they have completed trials and tests by working on themselves spiritually.
Twin flames cannot come together unless they have worked on themselves and finally found peace inside their spirit.
Are twin flames toxic relationships?
It’s not necessarily toxic but it can’t feel that way when one twin is running from their own self.
They will try to resist their connection, by even trying to cut the cords. In my experience, no one has ever been successful with cutting cords in a Twin flame connection.
Also many people cannot deal with the intensity of the energy. This requires spiritual healing and balancing within inside their soul center. I highly recommend meditation to help with the healing process.
Everyone has free will and we have choices, but after meeting your twin, it is very difficult to have the same feelings for someone else.
It’s better not to deny your twin flame connection but dealing and coping with the situation that is in front of you.
How can I find my Twin flame or Soulmate?
I’m always been asked this question, but to be honest with you, it’s highly recommended that you don’t go searching for him or her. Especially if there appears to be a type of connection that appeals to you, such as a twin flame.
There are many reasons why you are meant to be with a specific type, for the time being and then later, being with another type. I see this change all the time and there’s no way to spiritually detect which one is best for you.
You are meant to be happy with someone and loved. Sometimes we are passing through with certain people, then the relationship fade and we move onto the next, and so on; so it’s better to just take it day by day with each person you meet.
What is a past life soulmate connection?
We are all sent into the world and brought here for a brief time.
We are passing through to make some decisions in our existence, until our last breath.
Whenever we don’t connect, everyone has a decision, when they are crossed over, to return back to the physical world, to live and sort through the conflicting times.
This is why many times you feel that “déjà vu” type of feeling with people or places and many times you know that this is something spiritual, through a dream and it all happens for a reason. Nothing is a coincidence!
How can you tell when we have a past life?
I believe in past lives and I know we have more than one. Many times we get impressions and flashes through visions and dreams. Going through the sleep cycle with the subconscious mind, we are actually opening ourselves to the soul center, like the way children are.
What is a karmic energy?
Many times, they have a past life history and it can create a lot of negativity for them to live in harmony.
Many times, they also mimic the twin flame connection. People may get mixed up with the twin flame and actually have met a false twin.
How will I know I’m not with my false twin flame?
The only way to know if that is a false twin is when you meet your True twin flame and usually this is very rare. But you want a soulmate to be a Twin flame and then later find out it was a soulmate, this is still considered a spiritual connection.
I know that it gets confusing when you can be with someone and think that they are your twin flame and then realize several years later after meeting your true twin that they were not your twin but actually a soulmate helping you to find your true twin flame.
This is why it’s another reason not to go look for a specific type of connection, you just need to take it one step at a time with every relationship, even if you are just dating that person.
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Soulmates can be friendships but they also can be lifelong soul partners.
There are so many that enter in our lives as you may already know and many times, they are just people who are sent to us to help us correct mistakes, learn about ourselves and to help us on our spiritual journey.
We meet so many throughout our life times and then it may cause us heartache. And then, another one enters to take that place and fulfill the missing void.
You can meet someone and think that this person is your true eternal SOULMATE, but only having it end up into heartache and disappointment.
Then meeting up with your true soulmate – your twin flame.
Twin flames are part of the Soulmate group, but they are sent from the Divine.
Twinflames are the other half of your spirit. Everyone is different and unique. Some are meant to be with their soulmatein life and some are sent as their twin flame.
It’s not that one is better than the other but there is a divine pre-plan destiny designated just for you.
The main reason why soulmates enter during our lives is to help us learn valuable lessons to grow, within inside our spirit.
When meeting your divine partner (Soul mate or Twinflame),you have a sense of knowing of why you were involved with such a negative or several negative and toxic relationships, prior of meeting your Divine partner.
Whenever you meet a soulmate, there is a feeling of knowing and healing that happens between them. Psychic energy fills up, that you both feel deep within your spirit.
Soulmates are always ready and open to find each other, but there are many also that are scared and that can go into a standstill with their energy.
When meeting up so unexpected, then getting involved so quickly, when one or both are not ready. Will it create the runner and chaser phases in both Soulmate and twin flame connection.
There are so many people that when they hear the word soulmate, everyone’s mind starts going into a lifelong partnership that will be perfect.
But actually the truth is that soulmates come in for many different reasons and not all are meant for lifelong partnerships.
Soulmates connections are always spiritual.
They help with life lessons and healing, many time they both need to learn from past life energies.
A Soulmate can enter in our life when they are young and find themselves in a romantic relationship filled with love. Getting married, having children (sometimes grandchildren). Only to have it end in a divorce.
Finding out that it was a life lesson and a steppingstone to help us get where we need to be ultimately in our lives.
This is when they reconnect with another soulmate, most of the times it is the twin flame connection.
There are many different situations when meeting your Twin flame is the most beautiful and intense feeling that they will ever feel with that person.
Most of the time, they will try to reestablish their connection together. But quite often, there is some sort of difficulty with reuniting and living in perfect harmony.
This are the runner and chaser stages in the twin flame connection.
They first go through what we call the honeymoon phase, they think and feel that everything is perfect, that it’s the best thing they’ve ever had in your life.
Many times, both twins are extremely happy and then the Runner may just pick up and leave without warning, making the chaser feel as if they did something wrong and blaming themselves.
You may ask what are a Runner and chaser stages, exactly?
The Runner and Chaser don’t necessarily mean that they are running and chasing each other.
Just that the runner is running from their own emotions and unaware (or awake) of what their divine connection is all about.
The Chaser understands the risks and is emotionally ready, they are awake and understand the connection.
The Runner can run for several months or years before they finally awaken. I know that this sounds extreme but they need to sort through their own issues, usually caused by some sort of fear in their life.
The Chaser is always willing to help and give the Runner another chance. Although they are awake and they will wait until the Chaser is ready.
Eventually the Runner will come to their senses and awaken, it’s never too late for the Runner and Chaser to come together into a divine union.
How to find your soulmate or twin flame?
The answer is simple, you never seek out and look for any type of soul connection, but look for the person that you are most drawn to. The only way to find your true Divine partner is to align your spirit and embrace love.
The first step to heal from the separation of your twin flame.
1. Stop stressing about when you will reunite with your Twin Flame
Stop focusing your mind on him or her, trying to figure out why things happened in your relationship. Sometimes blaming yourself about the situation.
This is actually causing more harm than good. This is why you both send and receive energy to each other and many times you will feel your Twin telepathically.
Remotely, you both can send and receive energy to each other that in return they can feel what the other is feeling.
It’s not that you can have a full conversation with your twin telepathically, but if you do send messages, they will feel something coming through in a spiritual sense.
2. Focus on loving yourself.
Yes I know we all love ourselves, but many times we don’t exactly express love to ourselves.
Saying positive affirmationsevery day, even though you don’t feel positive will help the love amplify higher vibrations inside your soul center.
3. Release toxic energy.
Many times, you can accumulate negative energy, not just from people but from certain foods that you may eat, by example.
Eating healthier and clean as always #1. But also physical activity. Getting in some type of vigorous exercise at least 3 to 4 times a week helps with the healing process with twin flames.
There are many ways to fit in some type of exercise, a few of my favorites are Zumba, Walking, circuit training, and my new favorite spinning.
You will feel much more lighter and not to mention look better too. Of course, always consult with your Physician if you have health issues and what works best for you.
4. Spirituality and meditation
When you tune into your own spirituality, it helps you to get all these other things moving along. I highly recommend it and many find yoga to be very therapeutic when it comes to beginners meditation.
Meditation is easier than you think. It’s all about total relaxation and letting your mind go so that your spirit can help you find the peace and serenity that it longs for.
It’s all part of a mind body and spirit connection with your Twin flame.
Once you become and more adjusted with yourself – emotionally, physically and spiritually, things can fall into place and you will feel much more grounded and healing inside your spirit.
There’s always a soul mission with twin flames and you need to focus on yours. They need to work on themselves as well.
Always remember to love yourself first. Sometimes when your energy is low you may forget how to embrace a higher vibrational level to attract your soul connection and manifest the relationship into your life.
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